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Meaningful Coincidences: Making Sense of Synchronicities
Everything in our lives is meaningfully intertwined. One thing always leads to another in a beautifully rhythmic dance that others call meaningful coincidences.
How do you recognize you’re on the right path in life?
When life is filled with uncertainties and riddled with questions that are seemingly meant to be unanswered, how does one know they’re on the right track? The answer is simple and has always been under our noses: life gives us its answers through the universe, through the everyday life we try so hard to live yet also decipher.
What the Universe Tells Us
“Give me a sign.”
One way or another, we’ve all had moments when we sought guidance and answers from the universe or whoever or whatever we believe in. What we often label as a desperate plea for help, most have had their fair share of surrender when life knocks them down.
Everyone reaches a point when life becomes seemingly pointless—reduced to a jumble of experiences that make no sense. The once vibrant existence dies down to a point of dreariness, a veil of bleakness that hovers over one’s days.
When this happens, we grapple for a sense of relief, seeking clarification through whatever means we find. This is when the universe throws us meaningful coincidences, those happy chances that begin to appear less accidental and more intentional.
Some events in life are random—those that exist and are paid little to no attention to. On the other hand, there are those that serve as helpful signs that direct us in the right direction.
The universe is leaving us a trail of pretty stones leading to our ideal life. These signs are synchronicities or meaningful coincidences that the universe throws to make sense of life.
When Meaningful Coincidences Become Synchronicities
They say too many coincidences is not a coincidence. When you encounter one thing way too much, it becomes less of something you should ignore and more of what you should look out for. This would be a simplified explanation of what meaningful coincidences are.
Life is a journey riddled with deep spiritual and physical connections, and weaved within these are often overlooked signs. It’s not every day that we look for answers to our deepest desires.
Hence, what might be blatantly shown to guide us usually passes unrecognized. Everyone is believed to have experienced synchronicities at least once in their lives. But they’re too distracted by other mundanities to thoroughly consider these signs.
Some refer to these as ‘perfect timing,’ others only call these ‘meaningful coincidences.’
Yet, ultimately, they all belong under synchronicities, events when everything falls in alignment and into place. It’s a moment of clarity of the universe trying to speak to you. This may come in the form of repeated words or numbers appearing randomly but conveying a profound meaning.
From a psychological perspective, this can be reduced to a biological experience. It correlates to the mind’s power to speak and make sense of reality beyond usual understanding. However, this is a different experience under the spiritual lens.
What Do Coincidences Mean Spiritually?
Aside from being a mental experience, meaningful coincidences are also often interconnected with spiritualism. Instead of being the mind’s work of unraveling the world, synchronicities in spirituality are perceived as a form of divine guidance.
“When you want something, the universe conspired to help you achieve it.”
If meaningful coincidences and synchronicities are summarized in a single quotation, spiritualism would likely point to this.
Synchronicity suggests that there is a divine being somewhere that understands our desires and seeks to help us attain them. It feels our longing and understands the throbbing emptiness behind our lacking experience. However, it cannot help us; physically communicating with us is a means to help. Instead, it relies on planting meaningful coincidences in our mundane existence every once in a while in hopes that these will catch our attention and we’re driven to decipher what they mean.
In the lens of spirituality, everyone is believed to have guides.
By the name, they’re tasked to lead us down the path of growth, of self-fulfillment everyone ever so desires. They communicate through these synchronicities, meaningful coincidences that often take us aback and nudge us to the right path. What may usually feel like redundant experiences are the practical workings of spiritual guides.
Serendipity vs Synchronicity
Synchronicity isn’t the only message the universe sends. Aside from meaningful coincidences, it also often delivers happy accidents. While both concepts may seem interchangeable, a deeper understanding of both allows us to comprehend better what the universe means to relay.
Unlike synchronicity, serendipities are often one-time moments – the magical event when things fall to place for a single momentous occasion to occur. When synchronicity is believed to be the universe’s workings aligning everything for us to witness meaningful coincidences, serendipity relies on wisdom and chance to find value. Instead of an event being “magically handed” to us, moments become serendipitous when we’re proactive in creating them.
It’s like the universe giving us a present after an arduous day of looking for it. Serendipity is life’s unexpected way of providing what we seek after searching for it.
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